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Hogs Get Slaughtered

Resetting Expectations

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Hogs Get Slaughtered
Resetting Expectations
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Hogs Get Slaughtered
One thing is certain in life.
The older I get, the more I realize:
How little I know
How much those further down the path know
I find myself nearly every week having an aha moment, thinking, “Oh, that is why they did it that way.”
Usually, it revolves around something that I was sure was wrong at the time, and now I am sure the only thing wrong was my thinking.
Well, cue the music, here is another one.
Warren Buffett has this great line, “Pigs get fat and hogs get slaughtered.”
In short, it means don’t get greedy and be thankful to take what the market gives you.
Well, let me take you back to 2015.
I am seven years into investing.
I am averaging double-digit returns.
I find myself wanting more and thinking there is a silver bullet.
Without getting us too far off track, the next year went a bit like this.
I took more risk, with very little research, and learned a valuable (and expensive) lesson.
Pigs get fat, but hogs get slaughtered.
Well today, I am going to talk about just that and how you can avoid it (especially in today’s market).
Let’s dive in…
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Resetting Expectations
At Moment, we are just finishing up our fall client meetings.
Meeting after meeting, I have the great joy of delivering clients the positive news.
“Your portfolio has outperformed our planning expectations.”
When the market cooperates, it is fun for everyone.
After all, who doesn’t like seeing more money in their account?
Yet with that comes the realization that expectations can quickly separate from reality.
Here is what I mean:
Expectation - Well, maybe this will just continue forever.
Reality - There is a bear market (20% decline) every 3.5 - 4 years.
Expectation - I should be taking on more risk.
Reality - Your portfolio should align with your ability to handle the downs.
Expectation - The market is doing great, but Bitcoin, Gold, etc.. are up 2-5x that.
Reality - Diversification means you will always have assets you wish you had more of.
You see where I am going here?
The minute we get a little of something good, we quickly want more.
It reminds me of the first question I ask myself when I see a private investment deck.
“What is the downside?”
I am still yet to see a deck that doesn’t do an outstanding job laying out the bull case.
The 20%+ IRR, the shortened liquidity window, and the “rare” opportunity to invest.
Yet just like any investment, we should always be keenly aware of the bear case.
Now, to be clear, I am not a doom and gloom guy (or investor).
In fact, quite the opposite. I believe in the power of the markets.
Yet to be a great investor (and achieve a great return), you must focus as much (or more) on your losers than your winners.
Consider these stats from a memo legendary investor Howard Marks wrote titled: “Fewer Losers, or More Winners?”
Pension fund manager, David VanBenschoten, achieved the following returns:
Never ranked in the top 27th percentile
Never ranked in the bottom 47th percentile
After 14 years, his results ranked in the 4th percentile
Wait what? Yeah, I know, crazy.
He was never in the top 25% yearly, but finished in the top 5% after 14 years.
That my friends, is the power of protecting your downside.
So what can we learn from this and apply to our own portfolios?
We should be as focused on the downside case and the upside case.
Remember, your goal as an investor (not a speculator) is to achieve the highest rate of return over the longest time period possible.
To do that, you'd better protect your blindside (football reference for my NFL fans).
To do that, you need to:
Own a diversified portfolio
Never lose track of your desired life outcome
Build a portfolio you can stick with in a bear market
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So remember, the next time you think you should be earning more…
Warren is right, hogs get slaughtered (eventually).
For us, we need to ensure our portfolio has a keen awareness of the downside (especially when things are good)
Until next time my friends!
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A Money Question
What is the rate of return you need to achieve your desired outcome?
Look, I get it, we all want to earn the highest rate of return.
Yet consider one person who earns 15% but never reaches their life goals, and one who earns 8% and reaches every life goal.
Who had the better outcome?
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